Are you familiar with the paradigm of love, “gardener-flower”?
The theory suggests that every relationship needs a gardener and a flower to thrive. Someone to cultivate and nurture the love.
Two Geminis dating. Who is the flower and who is the gardener? Can a relationship survive with two gardeners but no flowers? Or two flowers and no gardener?
But what if each Gemini can be both a flower and a gardener at the same time?
In fact, the Gemini symbol is a pair of twins. Identical twins, for that matter, so maybe when one is a flower, the other will assume the gardener’s responsibility.
All that to say, two Geminis can have a wonderful dating experience. Let’s find out more.
Two Geminis Dating: Can They Make a Good Couple?
Yes, they can. A Gemini guy dating another Gemini female seems interesting. Imagine all that energy; some astrologers think it’s too much and may affect the relationship.
However, if they give each other space, they can be a perfect match because each will be a mystery to the other. So, the task will be to uncover the mystery.
At first, it may seem like frenzied love. Geminis are outgoing and talkative, so two means double the talking. Each will try to out-dazzle the other, as they all want to be heard, so there will be a lot of interruptions.
But the good news is, that each can keep up with the other’s zigzaggy personality and have fun together. Their fast-paced, mercurial personalities can leave them breathless and wondering if their relationship is healthy.
But I think outsiders would notice it more than the couple because they are meant to absorb each other’s energy and keep up with the pace.
Here is why two Geminis make a perfect combo:
They are flexible
Geminis have a flexible trait, hence they can adapt and fit almost anywhere. To adapt, you need to compromise and make the necessary adjustments.
For a relationship to thrive, partners must compromise and accommodate each other’s imperfections. Geminis’ flexibility traits help accommodate each other’s imperfections without judgment.
In the same way, their relationship accommodates friendship, so they have a larger circle. This way, they have a life away from their love life. They can spend time with friends or other couples, have fun and learn their values.
They are likely to agree on almost everything
Dating your Zodiac sign is like dating your twin. In fact, the Gemini symbol is a pair of twins.
This means similar traits, hence compatibility. For example, Gemini is known to be adventurous and unpredictable. They like trying new things and are not scared to explore.
Dating someone who likes the same things as you is fun. You just decided to try a new restaurant, and you are in. You can even decide to pack in the middle of the night and go camping, and the best part is that it’s fun for both of you.
Another thing, since your interests are almost similar, you agree on almost everything. You understand each other, so there are fewer arguments. When it comes to making conversation, you have similar topics of interest, so you talk about what you love.
They are compatible as friends
Have you come across Gemini besties?
The friendship is exciting and admirable. They bring the best out of each other and push each other to try something new, no matter how hard it seems. Sometimes they fail, but mostly they enjoy success.
And even when they fail, they still rise and try again. When it comes to having fun, they bond perfectly as they enjoy each other’s company.
A couple that is compatible as friends is likely to thrive. Every relationship needs that. Finding a friend in a partner is amazing because you share all your baggage, and they help you carry it.
Their love compatibility is high
Gemini’s love compatibility is on the high end. They will have a strong sexual and emotional connection.
They will always have new ideas to try on the weekend. A fun sporting activity or an adventurous movie to enjoy. Something exciting to bond over.
Their relationship will be thrilling as they incorporate new activities, explore the world, and push each other to the limit.
And the chemistry? It’s magical as they are both air signs.
Love is supposed to be fun, so they will have all the fun in the world. You see, two Geminis together are like kids without a chaperone. And not just two kids, at least four, so you can imagine the chaos.
But at least they are adults, so it is not necessarily chaos. Just like kids, they will want to sample things, chat and giggle around.
The bond is so genuine, so not so hard to spot. Besides, the two can’t keep calm; they will be holding hands or kissing in public, not necessarily to display their affection but to enjoy the companionship and not care if you are looking.
Gemini-Gemini Compatibility: The Downside
Though these two have high compatibility, it doesn’t mean they will always have a smooth ride. After all, even roses have thorns.
Their detached nature brings commitment issues. And not just that, it’s hard to trust as they scrutinize everything from all angles. All these interfere with loyalty and trust, which may spoil everything.
In addition, it’s hard to say how genuine and strong the bond is between two outrageous flirts. I mean, if your partner is flirting with everyone at a party and treating them how he or she should be treating you, how sure are you that what you have is real?
It’s easy to assume you are just another person they are flirting with.
Though they are both Gemini, there is a risk of being totally opposite. There will be similarities in personality traits and interests, but this doesn’t mean there won’t be differences.
Even identical twins have some differences. They don’t have everything perfectly similar.
An issue arises when the difference is unacceptable to the other person, no matter how tiny. At such a point, the relationship is at stake.
Final Thoughts
Two Geminis dating can be a wonderful experience. However, the relationship can only survive if, despite their differences, they still find a balance and build a connection.
There is also a lot to learn as there will be too much energy propelling the relationship. The two need to learn how to water each other down for things to work.
